Dear Sue: I currently am looking for a new position, and have been turned down several times for positions that I thought I would be very good at. I am a 4'8" female, and can't help but wonder if my height is holding me back.
I feel as though perspective employers do not feel as though I have enough presence. I've even thought of saying something like, "Being small is something that I had to overcome a long time ago, and I never let it get in the way of getting what I want." Can you tell me what you think?
- Small female
Sue Says: You never will know if people are making judgments about you because of your height - or your hair color, your weight, your clothing, your nails, etc. We all make initial judgments about others and form impressions rather quickly upon meeting someone for the first time.
If you feel prospective employers think you lack presence you may be right, but it may have more to do with how you feel about your height than your actual size. Do you "stand" tall and carry yourself with confidence? Do you speak loudly and assert yourself?
Because you perceive your height to be a roadblock, try addressing it at the beginning of an interview. Don't put yourself down, come across as negative or apologize for your size. Instead, take control by showing that you are comfortable with yourself and that you do have a powerful presence. Adding a bit of humor to your comment will put everyone at ease. Addressing your height may ...
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