Dear Sue: I am working at a job I do not like. I was promised one thing, and given another, and now I am making cold calls on individuals at home, which is something I am just not cut out to do. Over the past year Ive had seven jobs. I feel lost and dont know what to do. I dont want to ruin my life. Please give me some advice.
- Need Help
Sue Says: Rest assured you are not ruining your life; you are recognizing youve made a few bad decisions, and attempting to improve your life. Do you have any idea how many people stick with jobs they loathe, because it is easier than doing something about it? You are more in control of your life than you think; you are facing your problems, and thinking about, not ignoring, the impact of your actions. You know you want something more, you know you can do better, so you are looking for direction. I admire you candor.
The first thing I recommend is that you evaluate the reasons youve had seven jobs this year. Is this a pattern carried over from other years or due to unique circumstances? Do you accept every offer you receive, use poor judgment, perform poorly, or lose interest quickly? Have you ever found a job you felt was right for you? If so what was it, and why didnt it last?
Whether this has been a pattern of yours for years, or just recently surfaced, consider working with someone (a counselor, psychologist, or coach) who can help you work through your issues.
Secondly, take some time to identify your ideal job...
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